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A more attractive guy in the same class called a friend of mine beautiful and everyone says "awww! So sweet!!! You guys should date!!!! Nobody deserves that kind of treatment. There was a guy in my class who never spoke Like never And whenever I tried to speakhe just shied away I remembered him when I read this. Saying you're ugly. If you're actually ugly you just end up making everyone uncomfortable.
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I ate like an entire bag of chips! Not having a job, my ugly friend without a job is constantly abused by anyone he tells about his unemployment and labelled as lazy and worthless. People just ask me what kind of crazy experimental phase I'm going through and are incredibly interested in "what's next".
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It's not cute or funny whether you're the sexiest person on the planet looknig not even close. Actually, I think this depends on your level of attractiveness. If you are "too attractive" people will be intimidated esp the same sex and will say you are snobby, stuck up, or rude.
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Then I made up this quote. My sister befrjend the other hand is gorgeous and well endowed for her age. Not too long ago her and I were enjoying coffee at the local coffee shop and we struck up a conversation about mental illness. We share many of the same diagnoses depression, anxiety, bipolar etc. So yeah. A stranger actually called you a PIG. Who are these people?!! Posted this before but apparently cheating. Know a girl that's very very attractive.
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She was cheating on her boyfriend Her one friend wholly supported it. Said "Sometimes someone better comes along. We don't know her whole story. Maybe her current boyfriend is abusive. Bad at your job. Winking seductively, I would say.
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To be a complete failure. As a pretty girl with resting bitch face I sometimes wish I could be less appealing sometimes, and to note not all of my problems are with my face, people think it's okay to interrupt me when I'm thinking and telling me how pretty I am and to smile more. I'm reading, thinking or otherwise occupied I don't want to be decoration for you.
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Oh I forgot I am a woman, so asking questions and favors are always giving a hint. It just the desperation that is measured. Yeah, to my experience, being a woman equal "giving hints". Hell, saying "Thank you" to someone who's holding a door befrriend you is apparently a hint gil if you're 8 months pregnant, tired af and with edema. If your quiet and ugly, you're a loner but if you're attractive and quiet, you're thoughtful.
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I hope there were some better mitigating circumstances than just "being cute" Snort-like laughs. Someone who is attractive and snorts while laughing? They are quirky. Someone who is ugly and snorts while laughing? What a pig.
I think it's kinda funny in both situations. Whenever one of my friends do it, I explode with laughter. The easy answer is approaching attractive people in a forr. But if that person is above a 5 on the 10 scale, its wholly acceptable. TheJesseClark Report.
So ridiculous and what's sad is that most super attractive guys are total assholes, give or take a handful and even at that, their sincerity is questionable. I've been both obese and very fit in my life. I'm unattractive when I gain weight and was considered beautiful when I was thin. I prefer the way I am now, I'm now invisible. I take up lots more room physically, but no one walking down the street even looks at me. When I was fit, I had my ass slapped, was propositioned by married men, people would ubly out of gefriend way to talk to me.
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