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But from a male perspective, these qualities do NOT contribute to the sexual market value of a woman. Thus, the fact that a man is a doctor increases his SMV, while the fact that a woman is a doctor does not.
Thus, because niceness is a sexual factor from the male perspective, men mistakenly believe it is also a sexual factor from a female perspective.
In fact, women are Nice guy looking for my dream more attracted to men who do not desire them overtly, who do not acquiesce to their whims, who display outcome independence. In the same way as a man is fog to have a nose, he is expected to be nice. Thus, if a man is handsome, confident, and successful — he will be considered a great catch. And if he happens to be nice, it is the icing on the cake.
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Man also fool around and settle afterwards. Nice guy looking for my dream worse, they become old and think they have the right to buy a girl in Thailand … I guess you live in a double standard world still …. No, you are confusing men and women dating trajectories.
Men date around and generally date higher and higher quality of women with age, experience and life accomplishments. And then get serious when the fun is running out. Being an attractive young woman is like having cocaine and men are drug addicts.
Being a young attractive man, all other things being equal…. I love nice, introverted and kind men. I never understood the fascination with bad boys because being with them would seem like the loneliest thing ever. I have no luck. I could have written this myself. Let me know when you figure it out. Because dating patterns start with parents apparently. And if your father was loving, kind, and showed his affection for you, that could be why you like men like that. I always ask a girl about her father.
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Unfortunately, a lot of bad men display confidence as well and know what to say and how to say it to confuse and give off a different impression as a good or decent guy. The bad women are often called nice, sluts or bitches. Take your pick.
Arrogance loves attention. Not one persons attention is enough. Sorry for the names and slurs. Those are often just the categories people often put them in. From a former bartender of 9 years. Some could look at it as weak and strong too. Weak is the attention seeking Beautiful older ladies wants sex Paterson bad men.
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